Resolve Relationship Issues

Separation & Divorce

Coaching will help you through separation, divorce and out the other side.

• Worried about all the horror stories? 
• Costs spiralling? 
• Running up huge bills fighting each other?
• No-one to listen and understand you, to help you find your way through the nightmare of emotions?

While your lawyer gets on with the legal aspects, allow me to take the tension and trepidation out of the whole process, and provide a safe and confidential environment for you to deal with your emotions.

How coaching can help you

Sometimes, the only way forward is to move away from a relationship that’s making us unhappy.  Others in our lives may make that decision for us.  This can be an incredibly painful experience.
Surviving a relationship break-up takes great strength and courage.  During this time, you’ll benefit from objective, non-judgemental support, aiding you to let go of the relationship.  I’ll listen to how you are feeling, and make sense of your confusion.  I can help you to accept the things that you can’t change, and to learn from your experiences.  Gradually, you’ll recognise new values and goals to aim towards.
There is life after break-up, however hard that is to imagine at the time.

What will I offer you as a Divorce Coach?

A confidential place to offload your thoughts, feelings and problems is so important when we can no longer talk to the person who has been our partner.  We may feel isolated, lonely, fearful, angry, at a loss to know what direction or action to take, and devastated at where we find ourselves.
At our sessions we’ll work in a safe and confidential environment to:

• discover the choices you have during the divorce process and in your future life
• focus on your needs, so that you can attend legal meetings fully prepared and able to clearly explain what you want
• change how you are affected by the whole process and reduce the damage, so you can move forward more efficiently as we plan for your future.

Using my coaching and NLP skills, I can help you through the stress of your divorce, putting you in charge of the confusing muddle of emotions that you experience and enabling you to feel calmer and in control.  This will free up your time with your lawyer to deal with the legal aspects.
With my training and experience, you can move forward to create the new life you desire. 

Proceeding with a divorce

Whether it’s you driving the divorce or your spouse, you’ll have my full support to make the whole procedure as effective and painless as possible.
I’ll use my training and 18 years’ experience in separation and divorce coaching to give you all the practical and emotional guidance you’ll need.   By working with lawyers and other professionals, we collaborate to minimise the damage caused by divorce.  We ensure that each professional deals with the parts of your divorce that they are best at, meeting your expectations and reducing the time and cost. 
This holistic approach helps to keep communications lines open, to avoid misunderstanding and plan the smoothest route through the process and through the tide of emotions that accompany divorce.