Starting Afresh

Starting again after divorce or separation

Sometimes more terrifying than the loss of your old relationship is the thought of life on your own.  It may be many years since you were single, and the thought of having to start again can seem as difficult as climbing a mountain.  You may be worried about:

  • how you’ll fit into your social circle now that you’re single
  • where to meet new people on your wavelength
  • what to say and how to behave in the 21st century dating scene, and
  • what it will be like to date again.

 

Life after Divorce: wanting to rebuild your life

Being newly separated or divorced can leave you wondering “What now?”.  When you have been used to being part of a couple it can be hard to adjust to being single again.  The whole procedure can leave you

  • lacking in confidence
  • feeling negative (perhaps bitter), and
  • not knowing how to move on and restart your life.

First we’ll identify what you want from your new life and then how you will achieve it.  We’ll work together to rebuild your life step-by-step, discussing and planning each move forward that you’ll take, from helping you on a personal level to the practical sides of life.
Believe me, there is life after the break-up of a relationship and you can make it a very good one.  It takes work on your part, which I can help you with, and time. 
I can help you make it work.
Go on, invest in your future and see what new and exciting places it will take you to.

Helping Rebuild Life for your Children

It’s so very daunting wondering how to help your children through such a difficult time for them.
Take a moment to imagine how good you’ll feel, knowing that in time you’ve helped them come to terms with the ‘new’ life and how to make the best of it.
Together we can discuss and help you plan what you can do to make the future positive for them, and how you will deal with their fears and doubts.  
We can discuss this in your sessions, and I can also see your children themselves.  Sometimes children find it easier to talk through some of their concerns with an objective professional, who isn’t connected to the family.  They may be worried about saying things to their parents for fear of making the situation worse.
I provide a safe and confidential haven where they can unload their burden.

Karen Morley

Relationship Coach

"Karen has made a tremendous difference in my life. Her encouragement and innate sense of understanding has been invaluable." Charlotte